Calley, a 27-year-old former Vegas stripper and model who was pulling in ,000 a weekend, tells me that guys who are drawn to strippers aren’t looking for a real relationship.
“There was no way they were going to get serious with me,” she says of guys who knew what she did for a living.
Does he treat it like a consequence-free environment, or does he act like the same person he is outside?
“In the end, they don’t want to marry the girl who’s stripping.” Back in the club, an enormous bouncer approaches our table and demands that Kate and I leave.
He’s decided that we’re “hustlers.” When we leave, the three guys we’ve been talking to follow us and offer to buy us a lap dance at the überclassy club Flash Dancers.
I'm not sure I can even write the behaviors I've seen from these guys in the club. I don't know, but there's a type of man who frequents strip clubs purely to be a jerk to women.
Suffice to say, they get really excited really easily. Not in a pickup artist's "negging" way, but in a truly hostile manner.We give up on Vic and turn our attention to three guys grinning while receiving lap dances.